Shaun Galanos 
Dear Love Drive,
I’m nervous about telling my family I’m getting a vasectomy, or anyone for that matter.
I think I’ll be looked down upon in society and may not find partners interested if I’m not able to have a child.
I’m wondering what others experience or thoughts are… and if one “has” to tell their family?
I got HPV from one of the first people I had sex with. Lame. Nothing like having warts on your dick to really fuck up your self-esteem.
I didn’t want to get treated and I didn’t want to talk about it. I was embarrassed and ashamed. My parents didn’t find out for years. No one knew, not even some of the women I slept with. It was going to be don’t ask, don’t tell from here on out.
Dear Love Drive,
My boyfriend just came out. The sex was really good. WTF?
My boyfriend of one year hasn’t been honest with me. I’ve caught him in little white lies, and he’s generally hesitant to share things with me.
More if you count high school. I don’t. Puppy love. I didn’t know what I was doing back then. I still don’t but I’m OK with it now. Everything’s going to be alright. I’m at peace with not knowing. It’s freeing not to know.
My relationships all ended for good reasons. Don’t most relationships end for good reasons? I’ll have to think about that one.
Dear Love Drive,
My partner has been exchanging naked photos and having lewd conversation with people on the internet.
Can I forgive this and move on? I love him but I’m so resentful.
Dear Love Drive,
What should I do if I can’t get my girlfriend to orgasm?
She never brings it up but I feel like it causes grief for both parties in the bedroom. My manhood is below average, so I’m concerned that that is the problem. How can I help her achieve orgasm?
The answer was a resounding…maybe.
Just like the current state of affairs in the United States, we are a nation divided when it comes to whether ‘no strings attached sex’ exists. Can people fully detach when engaging in the most intimate of activities together? I received 42 replies letting me know.
Let’s dive in.
Dear Love Drive,
How should I learn to get into dating?
I have only had 3 first dates at the age of 27. Being honest (and polite) seems to disqualify me.
I have a career and the physical items down. Home, car, exotic pets even. I do go out and have a few varied friend groups. Hobbies beyond day to day chores.
I do have a life, just no one else in it.
We met in school and started fooling around soon after.
I was 16; she was 18. I brought her around the house. My mom didn’t like her from the beginning; she wasn’t a good person.
Dear Love Drive,
Can a relationship survive on pure love alone?
A kind, respectful, and exciting passion that doesn’t involve sexual contact?