Does having sex with him too soon put me on the slut list?

Dear Love Drive, 

Does having sex too soon with a man automatically put me on the slut list?

I met a guy out dancing a few weeks ago.

He was laying it on pretty thick but he was so charming and made me laugh. We had such a sweet connection. We didn’t sleep together that night despite his multiple attempts but we did end up sleeping together a few days later and the sex was phenomenal. 

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