The first date is almost always something quick and easy
A drink if it’s nighttime or a coffee/tea if it’s daytime.
First dates should be low stakes and low stress. Nothing elaborate or showy. Just a simple place to chat so we can see if there’s connection.
Dear Love Drive,
I cook all the time and wonder if it’s good in a relationship if a guy does it. My mom is okay with it when I do it for her, would it be okay to do it for my girlfriend?
Dear Love Drive,
I really want to sleep with a dear friend who’s married. Am I morally inept for wanting to sleep with a married woman?
Help.
My mom was terrified that I’d get someone pregnant in college. She said one thing to me in college that always reminded me to wear a condom.
Roger and I spent 9 months driving from San Francisco to Montreal, exploring the United States and living in the back of my pickup. A dirtbag version of John Steinbeck’s Travels With Charlie in Search of America if you will. Great book, I learned a lot from reading it before my trip.
Here’s one thing I learned. Offer strangers something to eat or drink, especially if you might’ve parked on their land inadvertently. This will lower your odds of getting shot.
Dear Love Drive,
I’m a recently single 25 year old lady.
I met this dude on tinder and we started sleeping together. I told him I just really want to be single, no relationships.
Why? Because earlier that week I caught one of my close guy friends using Old Spice.
Bro. Chicks don’t like the smell of Old Spice.
He looked at me as if I’d just slapped him and challenged him to a dual.
Bro?! Are serious? Every woman I have EVER dated LOVES the Smell of Old Spice.
Another friend was present but abstained from what was clearly going to be a very contentious conversation.
Dear Love Drive,
I’m a 28 year old bisexual woman. I have a really high sex drive and have dated both men and women.
I’ve always struggled with the idea of monogamy, but I’ve yet to have a partner who wants to be polyamorous, and in the mean time I’ve become accustomed to monogamous relationships.
I met my last girlfriend on OKCupid. We’re not dating anymore but I still love her. I love most of my exes. Somehow I’m able to stay friends with them. No contact for 6 months probably has something to do with it.
I’d been single for about a year at this point and was starting to feel ready for a relationship. Winter was coming, I’d need someone to cuddle with on those cold San Francisco nights.
I set my intention that I was looking for partnership. I ‘put it out to the universe’ or whatever that meant.
Dear Love Drive,
Why do guys text unsolicited dick pics to women?
Apparently getting unsolicited dick pics happens quite a bit according to my single lady friends. This baffles me and none of my guy friends admit to it. Could The Love Drive shine some light on this limp dick tactic for seducing women?