Get What You Want By Acting Like It

I wanted a girlfriend, so I acted like I wanted one, and it worked. The intention was set.

I met my last girlfriend on OKCupid. We’re not dating anymore but I still love her. I love most of my exes. Somehow I’m able to stay friends with them. No contact for 6 months probably has something to do with it.

I’d been single for about a year at this point and was starting to feel ready for a relationship. Winter was coming, I’d need someone to cuddle with on those cold San Francisco nights.

I set my intention that I was looking for partnership. I ‘put it out to the universe’ or whatever that meant. 

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I’m nervous about telling my family I’m getting a vasectomy

Dear Love Drive,

I’m nervous about telling my family I’m getting a vasectomy, or anyone for that matter.

I think I’ll be looked down upon in society and may not find partners interested if I’m not able to have a child.

I’m wondering what others experience or thoughts are… and if one “has” to tell their family?

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