A guide to eating pussy with Amy Baldwin

The manosphere thinks going down on a woman is gay, submissive, or a low-return waste of time. It's wrong on all three — so I brought in an expert to help me prove it.

In this crossover episode — Shameless Love — I sit down with sex educator Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Sex podcast for an honest, explicit, and useful guide to going down on women. We take apart the manosphere nonsense, then get practical: how to get out of your head as a receiver, real anatomy (yes, Amy brought a vulva puppet), hygiene without the shame, communication that actually works, and my field-tested tips for being great at this — plus a rapid-fire hot-or-not round to finish.

Ten years ago I wrote a blog called What Women Wish You Knew About Eating Pussy. Consider this the 2.0.

Explicit. Headphones recommended.

Mentioned in this episode

• She Comes First — Ian Kerner

• Emily Nagoski ("same parts, organized differently")

• Dan Savage

• Midori — the "pussy hug"

• Feeld (dating app) · Uberlube

• Amy's book, Shameless Sex

• What women wished you knew about eating pussy blog post

Links

• Shameless Sex: podcast + shamelesssex.com (couples retreats, Oct 2026)

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