Always confidential, judgment-free, and no-nonsense.
A lot of people who call themselves coaches are closer to consultants: they’ll tell you exactly what to do without fully understanding you or your situation. I’ll never tell you what to do, because I’m not an expert on your life. You already hold an incredible amount of wisdom.
My job is to lovingly hold your feet to the fire as we explore what you want to work on, where you want to go, and how you’re going to get there. To create a safe space where you can get real about what’s holding you back. To help build awareness, responsibility, and action, so lasting change happens. And I’ll be in your corner for the hard conversations, the vulnerable asks, the moments where you used to shrink and now you don’t.
We work with desires, needs, and boundaries, and then the language to communicate them: how to get your needs met, what happens when someone says no, what to do when a boundary gets crossed, and how to have the challenging conversations. If what you’re doing isn’t working anymore (or never really did), it’s time to try something new.
In case we haven’t met, I host The Love Drive, a weekly podcast about sex, love, and relationships. About 600,000 of you follow along across the show and social media. On paper, I hold a degree in Communication Theory from the University of California, am a California state-certified rape crisis counselor, a Concordia University-certified personal coach, and have been doing this work for over 12 years. Off paper: Tech sales, taxi driver, erotic masseur, hostel owner, and most recently, love coach. Life is the ultimate teacher, and I’ve lived a full one so far. If you’d like to learn more about me and my path, read this.
This is for you if you're done reading about it and ready to change how you love, communicate, and connect. We work together closely over time, because becoming a more intentional and connected partner is a practice, not a one-time fix.
Who it's for: you're navigating intimacy and the early stages of a relationship, rebuilding trust, making changes to an existing relationship, breaking a pattern you keep repeating, or getting ready to recognize the right person when they finally show up.
You want me in your corner as your sounding board and advisor as you navigate some of the trickiest and most emotionally demanding situations in your life.
What's included:
Three-month minimum because this work requires showing up consistently over time. Nothing changes overnight, baby, and you know it.
After that, it's month to month, for as long as it's useful to you. I only work with 5 clients at a time to make sure everyone gets the support they need.
Questions before you start? Email [email protected]
One focused session for when you're at a specific crossroads and need clarity fast. Should you stay or go? How to say the hard thing. How to ask for what you want in bed without killing the mood. You'll leave with a clearer read on yourself and a couple of concrete things to try.
If you start here and decide to go deeper, your $350 comes off your first month of Deep Dive Mentorship.
I'm a coach, not a therapist. If you're working through trauma, addiction, or a mental health crisis, therapy comes first, and I'll be the first to say so. Coaching works best when you're fundamentally okay and ready to get better at love. Plenty of my clients do both at once. Different tools, different jobs.