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Why Meeting Women In Bars Is The Worst

Meeting Women In Bars

Dear Love Drive,

I’m really struggling meeting women in bars. I go out a few times a week with some friends. I’m friendly, respectful, and fun (I think so) but I always get the cold shoulder from women in bars.

Maybe they think I’m looking for one night stands?

What am I doing wrong?

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Clingy, Codependent, and Terrified of Being Lonely

Dear Love Drive, 

I started dating a woman half my age a few months after the end of a particularly difficult breakup with my ex of two years. 

She's young, we get along, we've been seeing each other for 10 months, but I don't love her. We have a nice time together but it's not more than that and I don't see a way to continue seeing her. 

I've tried breaking up with her several times but I keep coming back to her because I think I'm codependent, and I'm terrified of being lonely. I have a lot of work to do. I know that. 

What's a man to do?

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How To Make A Casual Sex Date Not Awkward

sex date

Dear Love Drive, 

I need advice on how to just hookup with someone. I want to set up a sex date but don't want it to be awkward. 

I've gotten some matches on Tinder that are looking to hookup, but I don't know how to approach the situation.

I've done one night stands before, but I've never driven over to someone's house for the sole intention of hooking up.

How do I go about it without the situation being awkward? I have a major tendency to overthink every situation. What are some tips on not being nervous and just enjoying the moment?

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