Category Archives for "Dear Love Drive"

a few months ago

Why Do I Have Trouble Sleeping With Someone After Sex?

trouble sleeping

I’m a healthy male and I have trouble sleeping, or falling asleep with a woman in bed with me. I’ll toss and turn for hours. I first noticed this when I would have one night stands or after sex on the first date, but now I’m in a relationship and I still don’t sleep well with her.

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a few months ago

What’s The Best Place To Meet My Life Partner?

life partner

I’m a 29 year old guy who lives in Brooklyn, NY.

I’m searching for my life partner. How do I meet women for dating if I do not drink?I’m too shy to just pick up random women on the street.

Do I have any alternatives to online dating?

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a few months ago

What Are The Best Ways To Make Myself More Attractive?

more attractive

I have a hard time meeting women because I’m not that attractive. I’m just worried that I’m too ugly to date. Is there anything I can do to make myself more attractive?

I Asked Women What They Wanted 

Last month I asked women what they looked for in a guy.

This is what they said:

Humor. Passion. Charm. Humor. Confidence. Humor. Flexibility. Independence. Confidence. Humor.

Not one said looks. Sure, they could've been lying.

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a few months ago

Why Meeting Women In Bars Is The Worst

Meeting Women In Bars

Dear Love Drive,

I’m really struggling meeting women in bars. I go out a few times a week with some friends. I’m friendly, respectful, and fun (I think so) but I always get the cold shoulder from women in bars.

Maybe they think I’m looking for one night stands?

What am I doing wrong?

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6 months ago

Clingy, Codependent, and Terrified of Being Lonely

Dear Love Drive, 

I started dating a woman half my age a few months after the end of a particularly difficult breakup with my ex of two years. 

She's young, we get along, we've been seeing each other for 10 months, but I don't love her. We have a nice time together but it's not more than that and I don't see a way to continue seeing her. 

I've tried breaking up with her several times but I keep coming back to her because I think I'm codependent, and I'm terrified of being lonely. I have a lot of work to do. I know that. 

What's a man to do?

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