a couple of weeks ago

How To Not Slow Fade Your New Relationship

slow fade

Ending new relationships can be tricky. You’ve been on a few dates and you already know it’s not going to work. The chemistry isn’t there, or the values don’t line up.

Whatever the reason, it’s tempting to start slow fading her, taking longer and longer to reply to texts, and rescheduling dates until she eventually stops calling.

Here’s why it’s a toxic practice, and what you can do instead when you're losing interest in your new relationship.

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Clingy, Codependent, and Terrified of Being Lonely

Dear Love Drive, 

I started dating a woman half my age a few months after the end of a particularly difficult breakup with my ex of two years. 

She's young, we get along, we've been seeing each other for 10 months, but I don't love her. We have a nice time together but it's not more than that and I don't see a way to continue seeing her. 

I've tried breaking up with her several times but I keep coming back to her because I think I'm codependent, and I'm terrified of being lonely. I have a lot of work to do. I know that. 

What's a man to do?

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3 weeks ago

7 Ways Tinder Is Stopping You From Meeting Her

Tinder Sucks

Is Tinder actually hurting your chances of meeting a woman to spend quality time with?

How can an app specifically designed to help you meet someone hurt your chances of meeting someone?

I'll show you 7 ways that Tinder and other dating apps are actually hurting your chances of meeting someone exciting to spend time with.

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