If someone asked you what you were looking for – would you even know?
Are you wasting your time, dating the wrong people for the wrong reasons? And by that same token – are you wasting plenty of other really nice peoples time because you’re scared of being honest, truly honest about what you really want? Learn to ask for what you want.
The more I talk to friends about this the more I’m convinced we’re having a hard time being honest about what we’re really looking for.