Saying "I love you" can be hard and scary.
But it pales in comparison to how difficult it can be to ask a woman this one question,
"Did you cum?"
It takes an incredible amount of hard work to be a human.
We’re doing great considering how much energy it takes to do everything we need to do in one day, let alone everything we want to do.
But sometimes no matter how hard we try, life is too damn overwhelming and there’s too much to do and it all comes crumbling down.
Do this when that happens.Continue reading
Dear Love Drive,
We’ve been hanging out & for a while I developed feelings for her, she knows I’m gay & I can’t help but think she is too.
My gut says she is and also her taste in literature which is 50% lesbian novels. I want to ask her out but before I do I obviously need to know her orientation & if she likes me.
I’m not looking for friends. Don’t get me wrong, I love people.
I’m always in the process of bringing amazing people into my life, but life is short and my time is precious. I don’t have enough time to do everything I want to do, so making new friends isn’t a priority.
But meeting a partner is. I want love, and I want sex, and I want both to be good and plentiful.
When I meet someone I’m interested in, I refuse to let ambiguity and laziness rule my life.
That’s why I don’t ask people to hang out.Continue reading
I still let fear get in the way of me living my life and meeting new people
It happened yesterday, about 6 different times. No matter how much practice I get at approaching strangers, fear still grips me every now and then.
I was out shooting video for my YouTube channel. I’m making a video about ghosting and wanted to interview people about their experience. Even though I had a legitimate reason to approach people, I was still scared.
What exactly was I scared of?Continue reading
Dear Love Drive,
I’m recently single and it seems like every guy coming out of the woodworks just wants sex.
Including this guy I just met. He’s super hot but he still lives with his ex.
People can be unavailable for different reasons.
Maybe they’re not available for the kind of relationship you’re looking for. They might want casual short term dating and you’re looking for something more serious.
Maybe they’re unavailable for your kind of relationship style. Some folks need constant communication and others prefer a lighter touch.
Or they might be unavailable because they’re just not interested in you and you’re not picking up the hints.Continue reading
Sooner or later, people are going to disappoint us, it’s only a matter of time
They’re only human after all
I used to date a woman who was always late. No matter how hard she tried, she couldn’t show up on time for me.
One day she was late for our date because she got held up cleaning the piano. Another time she showed up three hours late because she ran into a trio of banjo players at the park. And another time she cancelled at the last minute because she took LSD on a sailboat with some friends.Continue reading
Dear Love Drive,
I just got out of a long term relationship. I’m not looking to get back into one right away.
I just want to date and have fun.
What do you think about going on dates with pretty girls and flirting with them? Making out? Sex?Continue reading