April 12, 2017

Women Don’t Want to Hang out, They Want to Go Out

wanna hang out?

I’m not looking for friends. Don’t get me wrong, I love people.

I’m always in the process of bringing amazing people into my life, but life is short and my time is precious. I don’t have enough time to do everything I want to do, so making new friends isn’t a priority.

But meeting a partner is. I want love, and I want sex, and I want both to be good and plentiful.

When I meet someone I’m interested in, I refuse to let ambiguity and laziness rule my life.

That’s why I don’t ask people to hang out.Continue reading

April 10, 2017

Meet new people without fear or anxiety

I still let fear get in the way of me living my life and meeting new people

It happened yesterday, about 6 different times. No matter how much practice I get at approaching strangers, fear still grips me every now and then.

I was out shooting video for my YouTube channel. I’m making a video about ghosting and wanted to interview people about their experience. Even though I had a legitimate reason to approach people, I was still scared.

What exactly was I scared of?Continue reading

April 5, 2017

Dating Unavailable People Will Destroy Your Sanity


People can be unavailable for different reasons.

Maybe they’re not available for the kind of relationship you’re looking for. They might want casual short term dating and you’re looking for something more serious.

Maybe they’re unavailable for your kind of relationship style. Some folks need constant communication and others prefer a lighter touch.

Or they might be unavailable because they’re just not interested in you and you’re not picking up the hints.Continue reading

April 3, 2017

Everyone You Know Is Going to Disappoint You


Sooner or later, people are going to disappoint us, it’s only a matter of time

They’re only human after all

I used to date a woman who was always late. No matter how hard she tried, she couldn’t show up on time for me.

One day she was late for our date because she got held up cleaning the piano. Another time she showed up three hours late because she ran into a trio of banjo players at the park. And another time she cancelled at the last minute because she took LSD on a sailboat with some friends.Continue reading

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