You’ve probably seen a bunch of scary articles lately about a new drug resistant strain of gonorrhoea called SUPER GONORRHOEA.
Here's what Super Gonorrhea is it, how worried should you be, and how can you protect yourself.
I’m a 29 year old guy who lives in Brooklyn, NY.
I’m searching for my life partner. How do I meet women for dating if I do not drink?I’m too shy to just pick up random women on the street.
Do I have any alternatives to online dating?
So, you’re curious about what goes on behind the closed doors of a sex party? Wondering how to get invited or you got the lucky invite, but you’re not quite sure how to behave at your first sex party?
Don’t worry, I got you.
Here’s how to behave at your first sex party, plus how to get an invite.
I’m a straight male and I recently found out I'm really into pegging.
However I'm ashamed of my desires because most people I have talked to label it as being a closet gay or wanting to be feminine.
I think they may be right about me. How can I accept myself?
I have a hard time meeting women because I’m not that attractive. I’m just worried that I’m too ugly to date. Is there anything I can do to make myself more attractive?
Last month I asked women what they looked for in a guy.
This is what they said:
Humor. Passion. Charm. Humor. Confidence. Humor. Flexibility. Independence. Confidence. Humor.
Not one said looks. Sure, they could've been lying.
And probably a few of them might've put good looking as their second choice. But for the most part people want to surround themselves with good human beings.
No one really likes an asshole, no matter how hot they are.
Appearance is important, but not as important as being a good person.
A good looking asshole might get more first dates than you, but you’ll need to be more than good looking to get a second date.
Women aren’t interested in dating assholes. We're conditioned to think that women like bad boys and that good guys finish last but that’s bullshit.
Smart and secure women don’t go for assholes. They lose interest at the first sign asshole behavior.
Probably. Maybe. Does it matter? Do you want an easy life, or a happy life?
You can’t change your face. Well, not without a significant investment and dubious results. Remember Michael Jackson?
Being more attractive might make certain things easier, but it’ll only get you so far in life.
And let's not forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Some women like tall, dark, and handsome men, others prefer a lanky blond. Some women go crazy for dudes with long hair, and others are more attracted to that big beautiful brain of yours.
Attraction has a lot more to do with you as a person than your physical appearance. But since you asked me what you can do to make yourself more attractive, I’m happy to oblige.
Eat well and exercise daily. Get a minimum of 1 hour of exercise per day, more if you can.
Run, lift weights, do yoga, ride a bike, swim. Too busy? Get up one hour earlier and get it over with in the morning.
Cut down on alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, and other harmful substances. Eat more veggies. Your body will thank me.
Confidence is sexy as hell.
You can do and ask for anything as long as you do it with confidence. Easier said than done, sure, but you can do it. You can do anything if you're willing to work for it.
Some people are born funny, for the rest of us, we have to learn. Not sure how?
Do open mic stand up comedy. It’s terrifying and will absolutely force you to become funny.
Once you bomb, you’ll never want to bomb again and I guarantee you’ll do whatever it takes to become funny.
So you’re not attractive? You’re not alone.
You can’t change your physical appearance much, but you can make yourself more interesting. Do interesting things to meet interesting people.
Join activities. Pick up a hobby. Become an expert in a skill or trade. Master a new sport.
This will make you more interesting and interesting people are more confident, and more attractive.
Develop a simple grooming routine and stick to it. Dress well. Doesn’t have to be expensive but it has to be well put together.
Upgrade your living situation. Don’t spend a ton of money; simply remove clutter from your home. Uncluttered spaces look clean, and clean is attractive.
Spend time thinking about and helping others. Volunteer, often.
Do work that benefits more than just yourself. The more time you spend thinking about how you can help others, the less time you’ll spend thinking about yourself (and how unattractive you think you are).
Helping others is hot. Being selfish is not.
Flirting is a skill like anything else. Develop it, and use it often.
Learn the difference between flirting and hitting on. Use the former on a daily basis and the latter never. Flirt with everyone, all the time. Make it second nature.
Every now and then you’ll run into a hater. Someone will put you down because of your looks.
Dismiss them. These people are jealous, insecure, and put down other people in order to make themselves feel better.
Happy, healthy, and secure people don’t insult other people. Spend less time with haters and more time with lovers.
Cultivate as much self love as possible.
There’s nothing selfish about self love, it’s the single most important thing you can do for your health, and the health of those around you. People that love themselves can better love others.
Lovers are more attractive than haters.
You aren’t just your looks. You’re so much more than that. You’re a deliciously complex human being that has much more to offer the world than your physical characteristics.
Show us how beautiful you can be by being kind, interesting, funny, smart, and charming. Make us laugh with your jokes, teach us something that you’re really passionate about, and make us blush with your witty charm.
Be kind to others, and at the same time, be ever so kind and loving to yourself. You won’t be remembered by how good looking you were, but by the impact of your actions on others, and the positive change that you brought to those around you.
Seriously. I wanna know if you believe in love at first sight! I couldn't get a straight answer, no one agrees! What's your experience with love at first sight?Continue reading
I wasn’t always 100% me.
I often did things or said things that I thought you wanted me to do or say, because I desperately wanted you to love me and accept me.
Not being myself came at a price, though. The more I did for you, the less I did for me.
Here's how being yourself will help you conquer life and find love, all the while loving yourself more than you ever have.
Dear Love Drive,
I've always loved having anal sex. The problem is my new girlfriend really isn't into it. She's not sure she wants to try it, and I need help trying to convince her to having it.
I know she'll like it once she tried it.
Confidence is key. That’s what everyone says at least. You can do anything you want as long as you do it with confidence.
Fine, but how do you build confidence when you lack confidence in the first place? And what the hell does this have to do with tripling your sexiness?
Read on to find out….